{"id":1465,"date":"2016-02-22T02:32:38","date_gmt":"2016-02-22T00:32:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/?p=1465"},"modified":"2016-02-21T12:35:39","modified_gmt":"2016-02-21T10:35:39","slug":"iliskinizde-ofke-kontrolu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/iliskinizde-ofke-kontrolu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130li\u015fkinizde \u00f6fke kontrol\u00fc"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u0130li\u015fkinizde \u00f6fke kontrol\u00fc<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkilerin ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz ger\u00e7e\u011fi olan ve asl\u0131nda ili\u015fkilerde tuz biber olan kavgalar baz\u0131 durumlarda ciddi sorunlara yol a\u00e7abilmektedir. Birlikte oldu\u011funuz ki\u015fiyle her zaman ayn\u0131 fikirde olman\u0131z zaten m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir ancak fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z durumlarda da kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sayg\u0131y\u0131 bozmadan bir tart\u0131\u015fma yapman\u0131z her zaman ili\u015fkinizin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha do\u011fru bir ad\u0131m olacakt\u0131r. \u0130li\u015fkilerde yap\u0131lan <strong>kavgalardaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck yanl\u0131\u015flar<\/strong>dan biri de kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 su\u00e7lamakt\u0131r. Hissetti\u011finiz duygular\u0131 onu su\u00e7lamadan sadece kendinizin hissetti\u011fini s\u00f6yleyerek anlat\u0131rsan\u0131z \u00e7ok daha sa\u011fl\u0131k bir ileti\u015fim kurman\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kavgada yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 gerekenler<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sevgilinizle veya e\u015finizle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z kavgalarda en \u00f6nemli olan \u015fey kullanm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funuz kelimelerdir. \u00d6zellikle ge\u00e7mi\u015fi hat\u0131rlatmalar veyahut hareket sarf eden s\u00f6zler kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini sakinle\u015ftirmek yerine \u00e7ok daha sinirlendirebilir ve kavgan\u0131z \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmez bir hal alabilir. Bu gibi durumlarda <strong>ili\u015fkinizde \u00f6fke kontrol\u00fc<\/strong>n\u00fc sa\u011flamak istiyorsan\u0131z tart\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flamak yerine kendi ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za yaln\u0131z kalarak sakinle\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra ili\u015fkide tek tarafl\u0131 konu\u015fmay\u0131n. Sadece siz konu\u015fursan\u0131z ve sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6ylerseniz tart\u0131\u015fman\u0131z\u0131n bir anlam\u0131 kalmaz. Bu nedenle partnerinizin de konu\u015fmas\u0131na, \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemesine veyahut a\u00e7\u0131klama yapmas\u0131na izin vermelisiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ba\u015fka konulara girmeyin<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130li\u015fkilerde s\u0131kl\u0131kla yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015flardan biri de bir konu hakk\u0131nda konu\u015furken \u2018ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn de \u015funu yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131n\u2019 gibi ge\u00e7mi\u015fi hat\u0131rlatan <strong>ba\u015fka mevzular\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131<\/strong>d\u0131r. Bu durum kavgan\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcmesine ve o an ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sorununun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmemesine neden olmaktad\u0131r. Elbette ki ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funuz sorunlar akl\u0131n\u0131za gelecektir ve y\u00fcz\u00fcne vurmak isteyeceksinizdir. Ancak bu durum ili\u015fkinizin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan hi\u00e7 olumlu olmayacak ve ili\u015fkinizi daha k\u00f6t\u00fc bir duruma s\u00fcr\u00fckleyecektir.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>\u0130li\u015fkinizde \u00f6fke kontrol\u00fc<\/strong><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130li\u015fkinizde \u00f6fke kontrol\u00fc \u0130li\u015fkilerin ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz ger\u00e7e\u011fi olan ve asl\u0131nda ili\u015fkilerde tuz biber olan kavgalar baz\u0131 durumlarda ciddi sorunlara yol a\u00e7abilmektedir. Birlikte oldu\u011funuz ki\u015fiyle her zaman ayn\u0131 fikirde olman\u0131z zaten m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir ancak fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z durumlarda da kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sayg\u0131y\u0131 bozmadan bir tart\u0131\u015fma yapman\u0131z her zaman ili\u015fkinizin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha do\u011fru bir ad\u0131m olacakt\u0131r. \u0130li\u015fkilerde [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1466,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1465"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1465"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1465\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1466"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.stil-vagonu.com\/kadin\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}